Spring is in the air. Or if you live in Midwest, you probably feel like we decided to skip spring this year and go straight into our incredibly hot and even more humid summer temperatures. But, either way, it’s baby season and, thus, baby shower season.
Now, if you’re someone who lives some form of a minimalist or zero-waste lifestyle, especially if you’re new to either of these, events like a baby shower might seem overwhelming or even stressful. Your mind starts racing with the ideas of wastefulness: plastic cutlery and cups, wrapping paper, tissue paper, gift bags, double and triple quantities of the same item, etc. Stop. Take a deep breath and remember: you can’t control others. That’s wasted energy. But, you can make your own decision to live your values within these situations and, hopefully, inspire others to do the same in the future.
Two of my best friends are pregnant right now and it’s THE BEST! I love buying baby stuff…for other people. But, what I love even more than just buying baby stuff is buying baby stuff that is good for the baby, mama and [Mother] Earth. So, I’m going to talk sustainable gift ideas/swaps/alternatives for those in your life whom are expecting or for yourself if you’re the one who’s expecting.
First thing’s first, if it’s possible, secondhand is always the best way to keep the stream of waste closed. Almost everything you could ever need for a little human has already been produced and put out into the world some where. But a few good sources could include:
- asking a family member, friend or neighbor who’s already had a baby and has things that they don’t plan on using
- Ebay (with the pre-owned setting)
- Etsy (specifically vintage items)
- Offer Up
- Facebook Market Place
- Craigslist
- Local Thrift Stores or Flea Markets
- Depop
If second hand isn’t your thing or you just aren’t finding what you want and running out of time, whatever the case may be, I have listed below some staple items for a new baby and the places that you can source them from without feeling like you’re compromising your ethics, the environment or the health of the baby.
DIAPERING
“An estimated 20 billion disposable diapers are added to landfills throughout the country each year, creating about 3.5 million tons of waste. According to a report from the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency, disposable diapers introduce pathogens into the environment from the solid waste they contain”.
Top to Bottom: Cloth Diaper Cover, Organic Zero Waste Laundry Detergent, Organic Cloth Wipes
FEEDING
“While BPA became widely known as one potentially hazardous chemical used in plastic baby bottles and cups, experts say there are other chemicals which may leach from plastic baby bottles and cups in use”.
Top to Bottom: Mason Jar Baby Bottle, Glass Baby Bottle, Stainless Steel Baby Bottle (not pictured)
CLOTHING
“Organic cotton is made from natural seeds, and there is no use of pesticides or other harmful chemicals. Bugs are controlled with insects that kill the pests. As a result, organic cotton products are safer for the skin”.
Pact 100% Organic Cotton Onesie
An important detail to keep in mind when shopping for baby clothes is season. Pay attention to when someone is due and not only the style of clothes that you are buying, but the size that you’re buying so that things that are relevant for the baby in that season.
TEETHING & SUCH
Top to Bottom: Natural Rubber Pacifier, Natural Rubber Teether, Natural Rubber Teether Toy Star
TRAVELING
When picking out a stroller and/or a car seat, consider practicality and functionality. Take into consideration what you’ll be using it for and/or how often you’ll be using it. Do you plan to take baby on your daily run? Do you only need for sparing times when you have to go to the grocery store? Do you need it to fold up easily?
Top to Bottom: Bumbleride Indie Stroller, Stokke PIPA Car Seat by Luna, Stokke Changing Bag, Petunia Pickle Bottom Axis Back Pack
PLAYING
Obviously most babies aren’t playing too intensely right out of the gate, but we are born with the innate need for stimulation and interaction. When considering things for the baby, think of natural and sustainable fibers: wood, bamboo, hemp, organic cotton. Think: gentle but durable, entertaining but sustainable.
Top to Bottom: Earnest Effort Wood Baby Rattle, Organic Muslin Floppy Bunny, Eco-Piggy Natural Rubber Blocks
There are lots of good online resources, if that’s your preferred method of shopping and some of these items might actually be sold locally at specialty stores around you. In case you didn’t click any of the hyper links for the images above, I’ll list my go-to places for baby items below, for when I’m not able to find what I want second-hand.
Fawn & Forest // Life without Plastic // Package Free Shop // Pact Apparel // Wild Minimalist // Mason Bottle // The Simply Co // Zero Waste Home// The Eco Baby
I will also admit that I actually gave my friend’s their gifts as I went along buying them so that they knew what they were getting and could adjust their registry accordingly, if they so desired. This, hopefully, will help to prevent the stress of double items that they may feel the need to return. I saved a few things to give them at the shower, but still showed them those items ahead of time. We’re talking about the need to be practical outweighing the element of surprise.
Don’t forget the beauty of handmade. If you are someone who is good at making and creating, a handmade gift always means so much more. Thought I’ve already done the baby showers and gotten them gifts, the babies aren’t here yet. So, I’m probably also going to try and crochet them blankets from hemp and/or organic cotton.
My last tip of things to consider when it comes to gift giving and supporting those who are expecting is don’t forget about mama and try to think outside of the items that will directly be used on the baby. Consider offering to come over and cook meals for the first week they are home or meal prepping so you can just stock their fridge for the week. See if there’s any errands that you can run for the mother (grocery store, post office, pet store) so she doesn’t have to worry about it. Offer to pay for a professional cleaning service to come in and deep clean their house (don’t get all hung up on offending people, it’s a nice gesture) or offer to do it yourself, if you’re up for the potential challenge. This way when they come home with the baby they don’t have to worry about it for a little while. Offer to do their laundry for a while so that’s off their plate. Take mom out to get a massage or a pedicure to relax her. Don’t be shy to just ask what would be the most helpful thing you can do to support her.
If you have any other resources, ideas or stories about how you contributed to a sustainable baby shower, I’d love for you to share below! Additionally, if you have any questions, feel free to contact me.